Three Sure Signs That a Woman Has Lost Her Loyalty to Her Man

It is sad to realize, but women’s fidelity nowadays is almost completely lost, destroyed, and ruined. Today, it’s nearly impossible to find a woman whose loyalty a man would not doubt even for a moment.

And the issue here is not about male overconfidence (or rather, the lack thereof). The reality is that modern women don’t know how to stay loyal to one man, and what’s even more important, they simply don’t understand why they should do so. If a woman is loyal to a man, it is either an exception to the rule, or it’s a temporary, reluctant loyalty, as if she’s doing a favor.

Yet every such woman deep down believes she is the most faithful to her beloved, and if she has “strayed,” she justifies the affair in various ways, shifting the blame onto her man’s shoulders.

We’ve reached a point where female infidelity is not only no longer condemned, but quite the opposite, it’s encouraged. Psychologists, relationship gurus, and many women loudly advise that “if something doesn’t suit you, just go to another man, it’s his fault.”

And yet, I don’t advise becoming a paranoid person who constantly thinks that the person you love will cheat and betray you at any moment. This is wrong. However, ignoring the obvious signs of lost loyalty is also a mistake. If you’ve noticed at least one sign, it’s already a red flag.

She lacks submissiveness

There is a simple rule: if a woman doesn’t respect her man, isn’t ready to follow him, and isn’t willing to be submissive to him, then she will never be faithful to him.

The topic of submissiveness for some women is a bright red flag that triggers a lot of aggression:

“Excuse me? Does a man need a companion and wife, or a submissive mute who hangs on his every word? Weak, insecure men may need someone like that, yes, but not a strong man.”

However, if a woman is not ready to be submissive toward the man she loves, any attempt to reason with her or point out inappropriate behavior (such as being overly close with other men) will result in nothing but hurt and anger.

Such a woman truly believes that a man has no right to challenge her, point things out, or, heaven forbid, demand anything. And that means, on some subconscious level, she believes she is not obligated to be faithful to this man.

Over time, her behavior will become more and more brazen, and eventually, when dissatisfaction reaches its peak, she will find herself in the company of another man.

Constant Provocations

Many modern women find it hard to resist the temptation of attracting as much male attention as possible. The contemporary world offers women fairly simple tools to achieve this.

One fills her social media with revealing photos, wearing minimal clothing. Other dresses quite provocatively. A third simply smiles at every attractive man and flirts with them. All these are forms of provocation.

Moreover, women often don’t see a problem in this. If a boyfriend gets upset over yet another revealing photo, where there’s hardly anything left to take off or show, the woman will likely respond aggressively:

“I’m not your property; I can do whatever I want. It’s just a photo, no big deal, I like developing my social media.”

Naturally, the man will end up being the one to blame.

But the issue lies in the approach itself. Feeling wanted and desired has become far more important to many women than “some” trust in their significant other.

If a woman persistently draws attention from various men, eventually there will be one with whom she’ll agree to go further. All this talk of “I dress for myself, I don’t care about other men, it’s all for me” are just excuses that work on weak and insecure men.

She Fell Out of Love

Today, a woman is likely to remain faithful to her partner in only two cases:

She values what she has in the present and understands that if she decides to “have some fun,” she will lose all of it. However, this doesn’t always stop her, and there are plenty of examples of women betraying even successful and wealthy men.

She loves him or, at the very least, feels a strong infatuation. In other words, as long as a woman feels a deep emotional attachment to a man, as long as she is experiencing all that passion, she is unlikely to entertain thoughts of betrayal.

But as soon as that level of infatuation begins to wane, a woman sees no reason to remain faithful.

If she no longer has feelings, and she’s probably starting to be interested in other men, then why should she restrain herself? Especially when there are no consequences for it—on the contrary, in the case of divorce, there may even be some pleasant bonuses.

It’s also important to understand that many modern relationships are sparked by a sudden, mutual attraction between a man and a woman. But just as that spark can flare up quickly, it can also die out just as fast.

This content reflects the author’s opinion.